Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Big Issue.

Truth is a big issue these days. Truth and trust. Without truth there is not trust. All I ever hear around here is, "I don't trust you!" or, "You need to earn my trust back." as well as "Tell the truth." even, "Don't fucking lie to me I know what you said.(did)" blah blah blah. All I have left to tell you is, Believe. Believe a truth. or a lie. whatever it is. trust and believe. and if you believe. and a person will trust you enough to tell you the truth.
All I ever hear from many couples is the big trust thing. Some people just don't know how to make things simple. and some people don't know how to stay faithful. We all have our different backgrounds. and different roots. But still. it is nice to be polite. tell the truth. believe and trust.
Trust means to believe. I trust you, means I have no doubt in my mind about your honesty, integrity and credibility. No relationship can survive without trust. How to develop and keep the trust in a relationship forever, because as soon as the trust breaks, the relationship breaks. Trust is the foundation on which a relationship is built. If you don’t trust a person, howsoever you may Love them, your relationship will not survive, because you have no trust in them.
Love appears to drive people crazy. If I asked a person who has never been in love what they thought it was all about. They would have no clue compared to one who is madly in love. And the person having never been in love would think that it is crazy to fall in love. A lover feels happy, rather so happy in love that it cannot be compared with any other happiness. One forgets one’s pains, one’s pleasures and one’s existence when in love.
Break ups are the worst part. I've seen it happen to many friends and family. Its painful to watch. but even more painful to experience. And after the pain comes bitterness. and blame. Some ex-couples try to stay friends. but knowing girls. most girls hold grudges. and try but can't help but keep blaming and thinking about all that happened. all that the couple has been through. all of the time "wasted" And all we can really do is just hang around friends to forget things. and receive moral Support.
But at the same time... nothing gets better than knowing that someone out there is yours. and you are theirs. and as well as knowing that you have someone who will tell you goodnight every night. and kiss you hello every day and goodbye every night. Knowing that someone, loves you so much, that they want to spend the rest of their lives with you. And watch you make dinner in just an apron, or fall asleep next to you. or grow old with you. And the moment your lips collide with theirs a flame is ignited. and it burns bigger and brighter by day, by month, and soon enough, by year.

find the flame. like I found mine. <3

Hakuna Matata.

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